If you find yourself exhausted from marriage, it may be useful to build some marriage structure into your life. Even if your husband won't help or cooperate with the structure, you can claim the time and space you need to feel like you have control over your life.

You may be exhausted from invisible labor or an unfair division of marriage responsibility, either way, exhausted is no way to live! If you are exhausted from marriage, remember- you can change the pattern by changing your part in it.