Available in paperback, Kindle edition and audiobook.


I entered the online white woman wellness community like a clumsy baby fawn in late 2020 with the release of my book about toxic relationships. I should've guessed the online white woman wellness community would be a new place to find toxic relationships.

I deeply regret my endorsement from Nicole LePera and The Holistic Psychologist brand but it is real and it is permanent because it is printed on the book. I can't hide from it or erase it so I did what I do...I confronted it with an open heart.

It did not go well.

In the spirit of transparency, you can find the full story here and her endorsement of my book below:

"Anyone on a self-healing journey can benefit from the empowering approach to boundaries in this book. As someone who struggled myself, I found Holly's work to offer a unique and refreshing approach to boundary setting. This book is smart and unique and written for the person who wants to protect their energy + own their power!

— Dr. Nicole LePera, The Holistic Psychologist


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Holly has strategically knit together the principles of Power Boundaries with the benefits of implementation, and gives the blueprints for putting it to play in your life, all done in a way that feels like she's your personal cheering section.

I believe I'm at least one vertebrae taller now.

-Steph L.

My entire life I have looked for and found many incredible sheroes and Holly is one of them. Through story-telling and concrete actions I now know how to become my own SHERO.

- Faith Winter, Colorado State Senator

“I’ve started implementing the practices and see benefit from my SHERO habits already. All the stars.”

— Jessica Campbell-Swanson

Brighter Day Strategies

“This is the new go-to program for self empowerment. Regardless of your situation, you will love it!”

— Jaye G.

I already have more energy for creating a more empowered and service-oriented life!”

— Kimberly Rose, M.ED

Colorado Ecotherapy Institute

“Holly provided powerful insights into overcoming lack of personal boundaries.”

— Courtney S.


"Power Boundaries was like a roadmap to the other side of a place where my value was undercut and deprioritized through nearly every personal interaction."

-Anne M Palaia, PhD, MPH

How to Order Abroad (Outside US)

"Holly is full of juicy ideas for creating a new structure in your life, not simply accepting the roles and stories you were handed.”

— Nancy Kepner

Crafted Leadership

“Powerful, honest, emotionally raw and insightful. And a little funny as well! Holly Tarry breaks down power boundaries using examples we can all relate to. She encourages growth, healthy relationships and speaks with passion.”

— Rachel Klein

RLK Group

“The author's style is like she's right there talking to you, encouraging and supportive while you find the strength to stand up for yourself and begin creating your own power boundaries.”

— Elizabeth T.

Kindle Edition.

This book will allow you to create the boundaries you need in your life, and it will give you the power to enforce your will with greater ease and confidence. Holly Tarry’s vulnerability is deeply touching and her family’s transformation is nothing short of inspirational!

-Melanie Ulle

CEO, Philanthropy Expert

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“Through personal stories of her journey working though toxic relationships -some repaired, some not- Holly shares her S.H.E.R.O. system to encourage us to hear our own voice, identify our patterns, set our boundaries, identify what it is we want, and own it all with an open, joyful heart.”

— Beth H.

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